In
2010, a Marie Claire blogger caused quite a stir after she published
some unsavory comments about the stars of the CBS show “Mike &
Molly”. The half hour sitcom stars Melissa McCarthy and Bill
Gardell as an overweight couple that meet’s at an over eaters
anonymous club and falls in love. Many people would celebrate love in
any form but not the woman’s magazine blogger. She wrote “So
anyway, yes, I think I'd be grossed out if I had to watch two
characters with rolls and rolls of fat kissing each other...because
I'd be grossed out if I had to watch them do anything.”
You
would think after the public outcry and eventual apology from the
said blogger, people would stop spewing nonsense about Melissa
McCarthy's weight. Fat chance homie!
Late
last year Rex
Reed, of the New York Observer
reviewed a movie that Melissa was starring in and had the nerve to
compare the comedienne to “a female hippo” and even called her
“tractor-sized”
Ouch!
Good
thing Melissa is cashing BIG checks and still doing her but this
latest weight related insult has to burn. The 42 year old is starring
in a highly anticipated new buddy flick with Sandra Bullock entitled
“The Heat” but it seems the movie posters have people talking
more than the actual movie itself.. On the UK version of the film's
poster Melissa's chin and neck are noticeably photo-shopped. Y'all,
even Stevie Wonder could see that the actress got a 30lb digital
weight loss make-over. The US movie poster isn't any better either,
the actress not only looks slimmer but appears to be raising her neck
in a barely recognizable position. What gives?
The
truth is society is still very open to idea of discriminating against
overweight people. A 2012 Harris Interactive/Health Day poll stated
that a majority of people (a whooping 61%) do not consider negative
or disparaging remarks about a person's weight to be offensive. Who
are these people and what pack of wolves were they raised by?
Riddle
me this. How come no “critic”, blogger, or outspoken public
citizen has ever had a problem with John Goodman's weight? Or Jack
Black's size? Dan Aykroyd anyone?
What
is with this double standard? Let's talk about the elephant in the
room – why is that women don't get that same luxury of being funny
AND fat? The
majority of women in America are reportedly a size 14 or larger so
why do we insist on trying to photo-shop, ignore or erase the fact
they are sexual human beings?
Melissa
herself seems to be unfazed saying "…. I think I'm more
confident than I've ever felt in my life. I always thought it was
worth the fight. Now I know it is."
The
“Bridesmaid” star has been super smart about her brand of comedy
and not shying away from the physical humor about her weight . Stop
trying to make her a small girl, she is a pleasantly plump. Skinny
does not equal healthy nor does being overweight mean that you are
lazy, unhealthy or unfit. Let this woman be!We as a society don't get
to demean, discriminate or disrespect anyone because of their weight.
Fat shaming (women especially) is so lame! The fat lady has sung- the
jig is up.
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